Incarcerated by your rights. Your rights to be hurt to be broken to be angry. Your rights to not speak to ignore and put up walls. You are right they shouldn't have done it. You are right it hurts deeply and you are not the same, but your rights of unforgiveness have turned into a chain. Don't try to settle the score, you reap what you sow. Don't try to make them fix it, only God can heal your soul. Stop letting what the person did to you eclipsed what God has done. Don't let the past intrude on the new season that's begun.
Forgiveness means no longer requiring the person who hurt you to mend what they have broken. Let it go and live.
[Put together from my notes from Living Praise Christian Center Next Level Young Adults Ministry] Pastor Dr. Fred Hodge